Since starting my business over a decade ago, I’ve reminded my clients that they have a choice. They can either show up in victim mode or their brilliant power.
There are a lot of processes I take them through to help them unleash their brilliant selves. However, one of the most powerful that usually leaves them speechless is teaching them about their choice of words. Specifically, what comes after “I.”
When you say, “I have to…” it makes you feel it’s an obligation. For example, I have to call a co-worker. I have to go to the gym. I have to work on this project.
Even now, as I type the word “have,” I feel my energy get heavy and drop. It sure doesn’t feel good.
Try this subtle yet powerful change.
Tell yourself that “I get to” instead. I get to call my co-worker. I get to go to the gym. I get to work on this project.
Notice how your energy changes. You’ll probably notice your body feeling lighter, happier, and uplifted. As a result, you’ll be more interested in taking that action. You’re feeling more positive and powerful.
Mindset studies have proven that you’ll get better results when you’re more eager to take action.
So, start thinking about your words. Then, choose them carefully so you show up in your brilliance and not as a victim.
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