Here are 3 really important questions for you.
Have you ever been afraid to post on social media because you were concerned about the reaction you would get?
Have you ever written a blog or created a video and kept it very generic as you didn’t want to offend anyone?
Or, maybe, you did something and someone criticized you and as a result (even though what you did wasn’t wrong or bad), you stopped doing it?
This has happened to all of us at one time or another.
Recently, someone who I don’t know well messaged something that could have been taken as an insult. Years ago, before I knew what I knew and taught what I taught, I would have taken her words to heart and been hurt or offended. Maybe even wanted to pull the covers over my head when that happened and stopped what I was doing. Instead, I felt happiness as I realized that I was being me and I’m not going to please everyone and that’s ok. The world won’t fall in. Especially, when other people were responding very positively to what I did.
From childhood, there’s an early belief taught to us to be “good little girls and boys” and that along with wanting our parents love, turns us into people pleasers. That’s not a horrible thing when you’re a young child, however, as you grow older, needing others approval starts to define you and hold you back. As a result, you’re living your life for others and not for yourself. That’s not a good thing because then you sound “vanilla” and even worse, can come off insincere.
If you’re an entrepreneur or sales person, you know that people buy from people that they “know, like and trust”. If your potential client can’t differentiate you from anyone else, why should they work with you?
It’s so critical that you learn how to show up as your brilliant self and bless those that don’t appreciate you and give them to the Universe.
So, today, I dare you to do something to let people see the real you.
Let yourself shine!
As you’re able to step into your Brilliance, you’re able to attract more abundance, more ideal clients, charge what you’re worth and so much more! Although, it will be scary at first this process is so worth it.
Kate Beeders, The Breakthrough Expert and Founder of BRILLIANCE Builders™
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P.S. If you’re not sure where to start and you’re feeling timid or scared about moving forward in this way, perhaps, you’re ready to hire an expert (me!) to help make this process smoother. Email my team and let’s set up a conversation so I can learn how I can help you.
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